We women are so competent and productive in the world and in our homes that we have a hard time softening up and slowing down when it’s time for romance and seduction.
The Seductive Process
- Choose the Right “Victim” – Study your prey thoroughly, and choose only those who will prove susceptible to your charms. The right members are those for whom you can fill a void, who see in you something exotic. They are often isolated or unhappy, or can easily be made so—for the completely contented person is almost impossible to seduce.
- Appear to Be an Object of Desire – Few are drawn to the person whom others avoid or neglect; people gather around those who have already attracted interest. To draw your members closer and make them hungry to possess you, you must create an aura of desirability—of being wanted and courted by many. Build a reputation that precedes you.
- Enter Their Spirit – Most people are locked in their own worlds, making them stubborn and hard to persuade. The way to lure them out of their shell and set up your seduction is to enter their spirit. Play by their rules, enjoy what they enjoy, adapt yourself to their moods. In doing so you will stroke their deep-rooted narcissism and lower their defenses.
Keep Them in Suspense—What Comes Next?
You cannot pass through life without in one way or another trying to persuade people of something. Take the direct route, saying exactly what you want, and your honesty may make you feel good but you are probably not getting anywhere. People have their own sets of ideas, which are hardened into stone by habit, your words, entering their minds, compete with the thousands of preconceived notions that are already there, and get nowhere. It requires some patience and art, but the results are more than worth it. The moment people feel they know what to expect from you, your spell on them is broken. You have ceded them power. The only way to lead the seduced along and keep the upper hand is to create suspense, a calculated surprise. Doing something they do not expect from you will give them a delightful sense of spontaneity – they will not be able to foresee what comes next. You are always one step ahead and in control.
Most of us understand that certain actions on our part will have a pleasing and seductive effect on the person we would like to seduce. The problem is that we are generally too self-absorbed: We think more about what we want from others than what they could want from us. We may occasionally do something that is seductive, but often we follow this up a with a selfish or aggressive action. We are in a hurry to get what we want.
You will not seduce anyone by simply depending on your engaging personality, or by occasionally doing something noble. Seduction is a process that occurs over time – the longer you take and the slower you go, the deeper you will penetrate into the mind of your victim. It is an art that requires patience, focus, and strategic thinking. You need to always be one step ahead of your victim, throwing dust in their eyes, casting a spell, keeping them off balance.
At all cost, resist the temptation to hurry to the climax of your seduction, or to improvise. You are not being seductive but selfish. Everything in daily life is hurried and improvised, and you need to offer something different. By taking your time and respecting the seductive process you will not only break down your victim’s resistance, you will make them fall in love.
At all cost, resist the temptation to hurry to the climax of your seduction, or to improvise. You are not being seductive but selfish. Everything in daily life is hurried and improvised, and you need to offer something different. By taking your time and respecting the seductive process you will not only break down your victim’s resistance, you will make them fall in love.
Play to that weakness.
You are creating a confluence of real life and fiction – the essence of any seduction.It is not enough, however, to win people’s attention you need to hold it long enough to hook them. Seduction is not only used on camera when you are online, but also in your personal life. You have to know your feminine values and strengths, that’s the only way you can use these skills.
In the end, I would like to send a message to all women around the world. Don’t forget that you are the stars of your story and whatever happens you must keep your shine and glow. The world would be dull without you! Take care of your soul and mind!
