It’s best to be aware of what your partner’s doing when you want to initiate. Sexting is all about the build up the passion and the tension between you and your partener. First of all, you have to play some sexy music, maybe put a glass of your favorite wine, take your favorite lingerie .
When you start a virtual or telephone sex game, be prepared with pictures, lines and appropriate behavior.Building on consent, you shouldn’t make demands of your partner. Asking rather than demanding a certain type of behavior from your partner makes it more collaborative.
Telling your partner what you’ve always wanted to do is a great way to see how receptive they are to the action in the future. If not, at least you can parlay with your imagination. This is the moment when you can feel free to develop certain fetishes or actions that you want to do in the future or that you have never had the courage to experience physically with your partner.
Using emojis that are known to serve as sexual innuendos can help set intentions without saying a word. If you’re an introverted person and you don’t feel comfortable writing a vulgar word, this is the moment when emoticons come in, which is between us, they exist on the keyboard EXACTLY for these situations when you want to be a little more kinky than usual.
You don’t have to come up with elaborate fantasies to make this work. All the content you need is right in front of you. Touch yourself like you would when you’re alone and explain what you’re doing. If you want to take it a step further, ask them how they’d like you to touch yourself. In these situations, sexy content comes into play. Subjectively speaking, this part is my favorite. Why? Because with these videos and photos you incite and excite your partner until he reaches a climax of passion.
If you’ve been with your partner for a long time, or even if you feel like you want to deepen a newer relationship you can try to surprise your partner with actions that you normally don’t do when you are together and see his reaction.
Having said that, sexting and phone sex are beneficial to strengthen the relationship you have with your partner, help release stress, can be a fun thing that you really enjoy or even a way to express your hidden fetishes.
